Strength Determination

There is a story of sacrifice of a mother who will hold the car that hit her son. As a result, her son survived but his mother fractured spine. What makes these women do act like that? It's because the power of determination to save her son.
Commitment is the willingness or the will to do something in earnest. Or could also be said as the willingness of firm determination. Not deterred by difficulties. No slack with hadangan problem.
We can see how people who perform extraordinary deeds. Like riding a mountain to the highest peak. Bertemankan cold snow and cold air. Or sail the ocean is so wide with the storm block, facing various difficulties gets in the way and very onerous. But all that could be faced, because he has a strong determination and the will to do something seriously.
In worshiping God, there must tekadpun strength. With have it, someone will be able to shaum, night prayers, and various other rituals of worship with passion. Not tired and senantias Istiqamah. Various deeds will then deliver it has a strong determination to get closer to God kepda. Always clean up his heart and do good to others.
So all the deeds we do will give optimal results when based on a strong determination. Including quality and quantity of our worship after Ramadan. Like a mountain climber when he has a strong determination to get to the top, then he will continue to improve kemapuannya.
Likewise with someone who wanted to bring him to God above everything. When Ramadan with all fasilitanya, will he optimized for close to God. When finished Ramadan, because that goal wanted to be close with God, he will not want to lose what has been achieved in the month of Ramadan. On and on he increase his worship charity. Always bermujahadah (a genuine effort). Namely bermujahadah in repentance, Mujahadah away from immorality, Mujahadah in the devout, and Mujahadah benefits

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Praising and Praised

Among the many common phenomenon that we encounter in everyday life, is a phenomenon praise. Broadly speaking, a compliment can be classified in three forms: the spoken to lick praise, praise that are just mere lip service, as well as compliment the spoken sebagaiekspresi admiration.
When addressed in a healthy and proportional, praise can be a positive thing that can motivate us to continue to improve ourselves. However, in reality, praise it more often makes us forget the mainland, out of control, and so on. The more often people praise us, the greater the potential for us to be complacent, a big head and lost control of themselves.
To be able to respond in a healthy compliment, a da three tips are very interesting for us look up. First, always introspective in order not to be swayed by the praise they say. Compliments are the words of others who are potentially misleading us. Proverbial, others are peeling jackfruit, but we who get the sap. Others who threw a greeting, but instead we are plunged into a large head and out of control.
Second, realize the nature of praise as the mask of the dark side of us that are unknown to others. Because, in fact, every human being must have a dark side. And when there is someone who praises us, then it is more because of the ignorance he will be striped and our dark side.
And troubleshooting the third, even if both sides are saying others about us is true, we are taught to ask the Tuha to be better than what appears in the eyes of others.
Then how to package a good compliment?. In essence, not to praise that sometimes spontaneously out of our lips, even misleading and destructive personality of a friend who we praise.
Some tips are a simple as follows: First, do not praise in the presence of the person directly, but in front of other people with the aim of motivating them.
Second, praise Lontarkanlah Dalan form of prayer. Example: "Oh my God, make him the pious and expert knowledge."
Others praise leveled against us, is one of the great challenges that could damage our personality. Compliments to kill the character of a person, without his knowing it.
But when the praise has become a common phenomenon in the midst of our society, it is most important is how to respond to every compliment in a healthy manner so as not to forget the mainland and out of control; pengapresiasi every praise is only a mask of the dark side of us that are not known to others; and continue to pray to God to be better than what appears in the eyes of people.
Also, equally important, if necessary praising someone is how can pack a healthy compliment. After all, praise is not necessarily with words, but would be more meaningful when expressed through the support and prayers.

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25 Motivation Love and Life Success

As I discussed in the article Fire ignition words of motivation for turning action, that motivasi2 thought could give a big hand in changing our lives.
Here's a collection of motivational words that can be used as a reference you motivate yourself, may add to the inspiration for you.
1. Trying to always think positive and optimistic in all difficulties, Do not obsess on the past experience or future, but Look at the present. The past is past, never to return again, the future has not happened so we do not know what happened and eventually just hope something chestnut, but in the now is, we must determine and make decisions about ourselves.
Thinking positive and optimistic look like a trivial sentence poems, but this is very important sdarilah in your role to take decisions that will determine success or ruin
2. Bercerminlah from the mistakes of others, apart from our own mistakes, reflect on the mistakes themselves so as not to fall on the same hole, and to reflect the person's fault, it will be more encouraged us for the mistake does not happen to us.
3. Be honest though honesty it takes us to hell.
4. There will be justice can be upheld as long as we still care about the existing law and the importance of personal interest.
5. If you love someone, love him what it is, not because you want him to be what you want, because actually you just love the reflection of yourself in him.
6. Dream of something and make your dreams a reality, the real world would not exist if no one dreamed
7. If you fail to get something, only one thing you should do, try again!!
8. Do not you love a person because the face / face, his wealth and position, but loved because of the kindness and sincerity of his heart because of it all, just kindness and sincerity of his heart that remains timeless.
9. Do not try / do things half-heartedly, because the results that you can also just half.
10. Never tired to seek knowledge because everything in this world needs science, if there is no science then we are the same as the dead, will not be able to do nothing.
11. Go to your best friend when she was difficult and fled away, when she was happy, because the real YOU will be remembered at the time he was hard on you when you help
12. Indeed when trouble friend, a sincere smile is more precious than a million words that no order.
13. Indeed there are many people in the world that is more difficult than we are, then stop all the complaints we are and be grateful for what we got.
14. Appreciate and respect others if we want to be respected and valued others, and respect and appreciate yourself first then we can appreciate and respect others.
15. Syukurilah what you can because you can not necessarily get back what you can.
16. One treasure is rarely possessed people today, that's honesty.
17. The nature of all human beings have the same degree, we need not distinguish it because the result would make us too low.
18. When the self we feel have betrayed and let down, pray that someday you will not betray and disappoint, because you too have felt the pain betrayed and let down.
19. Love is not the only reason for existence but also without love life would be bland and boring.
20. Do not have a fear of failure as an excuse to experience it again so you do not want to try again, but look at failure as a success to know how to wrong
21. If you see a beauty, be grateful because you can still enjoy the beauty that is not necessarily going you could see again.
22. Time is a sword, if you can use it well, it will surely bring good luck, but if you use it badly, sure he'll kill you.
23. Death came suddenly, so if you still think to always enjoy the world?
24.Succes always have a price to be paid. People who are super busy merged, ranging from Microsoft boss Bill Gates, or CNN boss Ted Turner, or Albert Enistein, or whoever it is, always has a "wound" that seldom can be known to outsiders. Outsiders only see "good" only.
25.All successful people look good, comfortable, rich, well, no problems. That's not true, successful people always have problems in his life. Whatever the form of the problem.

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Onions Life

By the break of a training course, the teacher asked the participants to make a game. "Who is the most important person in your life?" Teachers also asked for help from a participant advanced to the front of the class, and started doing the game.
"Please write the 20 names closest to your life today"
Participants wrote down the woman had 20 names on the board. There was a neighbor, friends work together, relatives, loved ones and others. Then the teacher was invited to choose, by crossing out one name that is not considered important. Then the girl was crossing out one name, and neighbors.
Furthermore, teachers were invited again siswinya crossing out one name left over, and schoolgirl it did, now he crossed out the name of friend sekantornya. And so on.
Until finally on the board only remaining 3 names. The name of her parents, husband's name and the name of his son. In the classroom suddenly felt so lonely. All participants of training his eyes to the teacher. Guessing what the next will be said by the teacher's. Or, finish is no more that must be selected.
However dikeheningan class the teacher said: "Strike one!"
With a slow and somewhat hesitant student took a marker and cross out one name. The name of his parents.
"Please cross one more!"
It appears that female students late in the game. He was restless. He raised it high spidolnya and cross out the name of the top he wrote earlier. The name of his son. Immediately sobs broke out in class.
After a few quiet atmosphere, the teacher was then asked:
"The dear you are not a parent and your child? Parents who give birth and raise you. You who bear children. Being a husband can be found again. Why did you choose the figure of the husband as the most important and difficult to separate? "
All eyes on girls who were still in front of the class. Waiting for what to say. "Time will pass, parents will leave me. Children too. If he had grown up and married, she would leave me too. What really could accompany me in this life is my husband. "
Life is like an onion. When the peeled layer by layer, will be exhausted. And sometimes we are made to cry.
For the friend who already has a spouse (husband / wife), without reducing the sense of compassion on the people closest to the other - hopefully our spouse continues to be a true partner, which only death can separate.

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Your Mind Prison

A grasshopper has long been trapped inside a box. One day she managed to lock him out of the box, he joyfully jumped up and down to enjoy his freedom. On the way she met a another grasshopper, but he was puzzled why the grasshopper can jump higher and farther from it.
With curiosity he went to the other locusts and asked, "Why did you jump higher and farther than me, but we are not much different than age or body size?"
Grasshoppers were answered with the question, "Where are you staying long? All grasshoppers that live in the wild can certainly do as I do. "
At that time the locusts realized that all this is what has made the box do not jump as far and as high as other grasshoppers that live in the wild.
Sometimes we as human beings, unconsciously, had also experienced the same thing with these locusts. Bad environment, insults, traumas of the past, successive failures, friend sayings, traditions, and habits can make us imprisoned in a box that undermines our potential false. More often we believe outright what they voniskan to us without thinking deeply that if it was true or is it true we are as weak as that? Worse yet, we often prefer to believe them rather than trust themselves.
Did you know that elephants are very strong can be bound only by a rope attached to the blade a small stake? Elephants would have felt he could not free if there is "something" that bound his feet, but that "something" could be just a small piece of string ...
Have you ever asked yourself that you can "jump higher and farther" if you want to get rid of "prison" that? Do not you want to free yourself so that you can achieve something far beyond the limits you consider your thinking ability and?
As human beings we are capable to fight, do not give up so easily to what we experience. Because of that, keep trying to reach all the positive aspirations that you want to accomplish. Indeed sick, tired indeed, but if you've reached the top, all the sacrifices that must be repaid. Basically, your life will be better if you live life by your own choice, not by a chosen someone else for you. (Source: Swara independent)

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Throw your dice

Snake-Ladder, during our little game, is a fine example of a game of human fate. There are patches that must be overcome. There are stairs that will take us up to a higher plot. There is a snake that will make us go down to the wet underneath.
We live. And was playing with a lot of snake-Ladder board. There is a board called college. There is a board called a career. Like it or not with a game that is being lived, everyone has to go. Or he just kept it there in the plot. Like it or not, everyone has to shake and throw dadunya. And that's the extent of human endeavor: roll the dice (and predict the results with the theory of probability). The end result, how much sum that comes out, is the absolute power of God. What is the Snake that we will meet, or Ladder, it is Allah who regulate. And that's where fate. The power we are only limited to roll the dice.
Unfortunately, there are also people who are reluctant to roll the dice and think that that is his fate. That's where his fate, the plots were. Those who are poor, continued to be there. Accepting the situation as fate, without ever throwing the dice.
They are afraid to roll the dice, never went anywhere. Those who are reluctant to roll the dice, never finish the game.
Each time you see Snake, throw dadumu back. Optimislah that among so many throws, you'll find a ladder. The difference between the optimist and the pessimist when they both failed, The pessimists find disappointment and the Optimists have hope.

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Life Map

Imagine you are in the middle of the ocean while on a speedboat. Fifty miles in front of you is an island, and on the island there is everything you want and aspire. All of your dreams. And the only way to get it all is to get to the island. The island is on the horizon behind. But the horizon is where?

The problem is you do not have a compass, maps, radio, telephone, and you do not know which direction to the island.
The wrong direction will make you stray far from the island of dreams, while all around you that look just sea and sky. Within two hours, you may have reached the island of dreams. But if you have the wrong direction, you can run out of fuel before it could reach the island of dreams.

Life without a clear purpose, without knowing and understanding your life purpose, is the same dilemma dream island. All your dreams can actually be achieved, but to achieve it you need to know what, where, and how to achieve it.

You absolutely know the direction to achieve them, and for that you need a map. Determine your current map, in order to achieve your dreams. Create seteliti and accurate as possible, and then you just drive a speedboat to the island of your dreams.

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Remove your bond

In a forest there lived a group of monkeys. One day, when they were playing, it appears by them a long-necked glass jars and narrow lower part embedded in the ground. At the bottom of the jar was no beans that have been spiked with the preferred scent monkey. Apparently the jar is a trap that put there by a hunter.
One young monkey came over and put his hand into the jar to take these nuts. However, the clenched hand holding a peanut can not be excluded from it because his fist is greater than the size of the jar neck. This Monkey thrashed out his hand to it, but still failed.
A young monkey monkey advises parents that, "Deliver kepalanmu over the nuts! You will be free with ease! "
However, young monkeys did not heed that advice, still he insisted that holding the nuts. Moments later, the hunters come from a distance. The old monkey back shouting advice: "Deliver kepalanmu right now for you free!"
Young monkey was frightened, but still he insisted to take the peanut. Finally, he was caught by the hunters.
Thus, sometimes we too often gripping and not willing to let go of the things that we should remove: anger, hatred, envy, greed, and so forth. If we still do not agree to release, when death comes to "catch" us, everything will be too late already. Would not it be easier if we let go of any past problems, and stared with a brighter tomorrow? Would not the world will become more beautiful if we could release the "fist" and share our happiness with others? (Swaramer)

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Why Shout?

One day the teacher asked her students; "Why when someone is in a state of anger, he will speak with strong voice or shout?"
The seeker after thinking for a long time raised his hand and answered; "Since that time he had lost patience, so he then shouted." "But ..." the teacher replied, "his interlocutor would be beside it. Why should yell? Is he unable to speak gently? "
Almost all the students give a thought to correct a number of reasons according to their discretion. However, none a satisfactory answer. The teacher then said: "When two people are in situations of anger, the distance between the two hearts they become very much even though they are physically so close. Therefore, to achieve such a distance, they have to shout.
But strangely, the harder they shout, the more they become angry and self-heart distance that is between them becomes even further. Therefore they had to yell even louder. "
The teacher still continues: "Conversely, what happens when two people love each other? They not only do not scream, but when they speak the voice coming out of their mouths is so delicate and small. Smooth as anything, they could hear so clearly. Why is that? "The teacher asked as he noticed his pupils.
They seem to think very deep but none of them dared to give an answer. "Because their hearts are so close, their hearts were not located. In the end no need to say a word. An eye view very simply make them understand what they want to. "
The teacher is still continuing, "When you're hit by anger, not your heart to create distance. Moreover you should not utter words that bring in the distance between you. Maybe in time like that, do not utter the words may be a sensible way. Because time will help you. "

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Mr Old Shoes

An old man one day about city bus travel. When set foot into the ladder, one of his shoes came off and fell into the street. Unfortunately, the door closed and the bus ran fast. This bus will only stop at the next stop is far enough away so that he could not pick shoes that despite earlier.
Given that, the old man calmly took off his shoes the next door and threw him out the window.
A young man who sat in the bus was amazed, and asked the old man, "Why is the father of the father who threw shoes too?" You old man replied calmly, "So that whoever can use it to find my shoes. "
Old father in the story above is an example of a free and independent. He has succeeded in releasing attachment to objects. He is different from most people who defend something entirely eye because they want to have it, or because they do not want anyone else to have it.
Attitudes to maintain something - including maintaining what is already no longer useful - is the root of greed. The cause of greed is an excessive love of material possessions. This love for delivery attachment.
If you are already bound to something, you will identify yourself with something that. You You can even equate happiness with having the object. If so, you must be difficult to give anything you have because it could mean a loss of some your bliss.
If we think deeper greed actually comes from the mind and our paradigm is wrong to property. We often think of us as our own property. This thought was wrong.
Our treasure is not ours. He is just a deposit and trust that one day must be accounted for. Our accountability is to what extent we can keep and use it.
Our role in this life is a media and intermediaries. Everything belongs to God and one day will return to Him.
God has entrusted to us many things: possessions, wealth, spouse, children, and so forth. Our task is to maintain this trust well, including continuing to anyone who needed it.
The paradigm of the past will make us address the problem differently. If normally you get annoyed that there are people who need help, now you just feel grateful.
Why? Because you see it as an opportunity to become "extended arm" of God. You do not feel annoyed, knowing that your job is just to continue "surrogate" God to help people in difficulty.
This way of thinking will give birth to live a full berkelimpahruahan and grace for us and the environment. Living like this is a life that always increases and never decreases.
Everyone will feel victorious, no one will lose. The universe is actually working with this concept, all the elements together, producing a win for all parties.
In closing, allow me to write a string of poems from a wise man:
"You can never have anything, You only hold it briefly, If you can not let go, you will shackled by it. What are your treasure, the treasure should you hold with you hold your hand like water. Hold me tight and treasure it off. I am as yours and you contaminate him. Let go, and all of it be yours forever. "

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Still the Day off Tomorrow

At one place, there lived a boy. He lives in a happy family, with parents and relatives. But, he always thinks it's something that's natural. He kept playing, annoying younger brother and sister, making trouble for others is his favorite.
When he realized his mistake and want to apologize, she always says, "It's okay, tomorrow it could be."
When a bit older, school is fun for him. He learned, make friends, and very happy. However, he considers it perfectly natural aja. All lived simply so that he considers all of it's natural. One day, he fights with his best friend. Although he knew it was wrong, but never took the initiative to apologize and make up with his best friend. The reason, "It's okay, tomorrow it could be."
When he was a little big, a good friend was not his friend anymore. Although he still saw his friend, but they never admonished each other. But that is not a problem, because he still had plenty of other good friends. He and his friends do everything together, playing, doing homework, and the streets. Yes, they are all his friends the best.
After graduation, work keep him busy. He met a woman who is very beautiful and good. This woman later became his girlfriend. He was so busy with work, because he wanted to be promoted to the highest position in the shortest possible time.
Sure, he longs to meet his friends. But he never again contacted them, even over the phone. She always says, "Ah, I'm tired, tomorrow I hubungin them." It's not too distracting him because he had friends co-workers are always willing to come out.
So, time passed, she forgot all about to call her friends. After she married and had children, she worked harder for the happy family. He never again buy flowers for his wife, or even remember his wife's birthday and their wedding day. It does not matter to her, because she always understood him, and never blame him.
Sure, sometimes she feels guilty and anxious to have a chance to tell his wife "I love you", but he never did. The reason, "It's okay, I'm sure tomorrow will tell."
He never had time to come to a birthday party her children, but she did not know it would perpengaruh on her children. The children began to stay away, and never really spent their time with her father.
One day, misfortune came when his wife died in the accident, his wife was hit by a run. When the incident occurred, he was no meeting. He did not realize that it was a fatal accident, she had come when she will be picked to death. Before he could say "I Love You", his wife had died. The man crushed his heart and tried to amuse himself through his children after his wife's death.
But, she realized that her children never want to communicate with him. Soon, his children grown up and build their own families. No one cares with this old man, who in the past never took the time to them.
At the start of old, he moved to a nursing home is best, which provides very good service. He used the money which was originally stored for wedding anniversary celebration to the 50, 60, and 70. Originally the money would wear to go to Hawaii, New Zealand and other countries with his wife, but now uses to pay the cost of living in the home. From then until he died, there were only old people and nurses who cared for him. She now felt very lonely, feeling that he had never felt before.
When he wants to die, he summoned a nurse and told him, "Ah, I wish I had realized this sooner ...." Then he slowly exhale the last, He died with tears on her cheeks.
What I want to try to tell you, that time never stops. You are going forward and forward, before you actually realize, you had already advanced too far. If you had a fight, immediately berbaikanlah! If you feel you want to hear your friends, do not hesitate to call him immediately.
Last, but this is the most important, if you feel you want to tell someone that you love him, do not wait until too late. If you continue to think that another new day you will tell him, this day would never come.
If you always think that tomorrow will come, then "tomorrow" will go so fast until you realize that time has left you. (SM)

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Deputy Chair Bahloul

Caliph Harun very fond of Bahloul, silly boy, a little crazy, but it often reveals the wisdom of forcing the caliph pensive. Bahloul also perform common functions for the kings everywhere: to be an entertainer.
He saves a lot of ways to make the Caliph delighted. Sometimes he accidentally tripped over a chair leg and fell, so the Caliph laughed watching kemalangannya. Other times he pretended to be lost in playing chess or play the guessing game with the Caliph or the mistress; Bahloul will grumble - the whole palace was chuckling laugh at the ignorance that dikutuknya.
One day Bahloul menyelonong as usual to the palace hall. In the luxurious space that is empty it looks empty chair Caliph. "Where the hell Majesty the King?" He thought. For fun, he sat on the throne sacred. Suddenly two guards caught, who promptly dragged down from the chair Bahloul gold.
"You stupid boy!" Barked as he beat them with batons. "You are beloved Caliph, but this tingkahmu gone too far!"
Bahloul shrill, unable to bear the rain beating on his body a little. Lolongannya so hard to wake the Caliph who was resting in his room.
"What the hell is this? What is this? "Asked the Caliph Harun by surprise.
The two guards to stop beating and tell what happened. "Right so, Bahloul," asked the Caliph.
"Yes, Sire, hoaaaaaa ....," Bahloul said as he continued to scream.
"There, there. That's fine. Stop squealing-mekik! Dizzy my head to hear it! Why do you keep crying, but no longer guards beat you? "
"I actually cried for the fate of the king, hoaaaa ..."
"Why, why did you cry over my fate? What's wrong with me? "
"Your Majesty, the servant of the king sitting in a chair just three minutes, but the torment that I accept this pain ... hoaaaa. King was seated on the throne for thirty years ... hoaaa ... I would not be able to imagine how the pain of His Majesty received a blow that would later ... hoaaaa ... "
Now turn to the Caliph who sobbed.
"Then what shall I do?" Asked the Caliph, as he continued sobbing.
Bahloul rose from the floor, and jogged around the hall of the magnificent palace that while brandishing his fists: "Justice, O King! Justice! Give justice to the entire people! Justice! Justice! Justice! "
Khalifah then vowed to fulfill that request Bahloul. He admitted long as it's been hundreds of times, has thousands of times, it promises to the people, with a variety of beautiful language, with phrases that seem serious - but never really tried to make it happen. "From this moment I would really give justice to all my people."
Bahloul went home, saying that he would not believe it the promise of the Caliph. "I still would often remind the king about the promise that .."
Caliph Harun exist everywhere, in every era. They require the Bahloul, who are obliged to never stop reminding how hot seat they had occupied. No exception in this beloved country, the latter being the case dihebohkan MAFIA TRIAL. We hope that people who are given the mandate to be leader and enforcer of justice in this country, which during the last campaign with a loud clear out the promise of establishing justice, do not forget the promises sweetness. And hopefully for those who are trying to deny its promises, it soon realized before it becomes too late.
Hope is still there, my friend ....!

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Learning from Philosophy Corn

Once, a reporter interviewed a farmer to know the secret behind his corn fruit, which over the years always managed to win the race contest of agricultural products. The farmer claimed he did not have a special secret because he always handed out corn seeds in the best neighbors in the surrounding plantations.

"Why are you giving away the best corn seed it on your neighbors? Are not they follow this contest every year? "asked the reporter.

"Do not you know?," replied the farmer.

"That the wind blow pollen from the flowers are ripe and cast it from one field to another field. When my neighbor's corn crops are bad, the pollen is scattered into the fields I am also bad. This of course degrade the quality of my corn. If I want to get a good yield of corn, I must help my neighbors get a good corn as well. "

So it is with our lives. Those who want to achieve success must help neighbors become successful as well. Those who want to live well must help neighbors live well too.

Really ... the value of our lives is measured by the lives it touches.

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Reflections of Life ...

There comes a time in your life when you finally get it ... When, amidst all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on.
    And like a child quieted after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to decrease, you shudder once or twice, you blink your eyes and a coat of wet lashes you begin to see the world through new eyes.
    This is your awakening. You realize it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change or for happiness and security to come galloping over the horizon next. You just accept the fact that he is not Prince Charming and you are not Cinderella and that in the real world there are not always fairytale endings (or beginnings for that matter) and that any guarantee of "happily ever after" must begin with you and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.
    You wake up to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you ... and that's OK. (They have their own views and opinions.)
    You learn that people do not always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and it's not always about you.
    And you begin to sift through all the crap you've been fed about how you should behave, how you should look and how much you should weigh, what you should wear and where you should do and what you need to where and how you should live and what to do for a living, who you should sleep with who you marry, and what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children, or what you owe your parents.
    You learn that it really is in giving that we receive. And there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life as a mere "consumer" looking for your next dose.
    You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a bygone era but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life. You learn that you do not know everything, this is not your job to save the world and you can not teach a pig to sing.
    You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO.
    You learn that the cross would bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake. Then you learn about love. Romantic love and familial love. How love, how to give in love, when to stop giving and when to walk away. You learn not to project your needs or your feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable or important because of the man on the arm or the child that bears your name.
    You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you wish they were. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes.
    You learn that just as people grow and change so it is with love ... and you know you have no right to demand love on your terms ... just to make you happy.
    And you learn that alone does not mean lonely ...
    And you look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and you stop trying to compete with the image in your head and agonizing over how you "stack .
    You just realize that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity and respect and you will not settle for less. And you allow the hands of a lover who cherishes you to glorify you with his touch ... and in the process you internalize the meaning of self-respect.
    And you learn that your body really is your temple. And you start to care and treat him with respect. You start a balanced diet, drinking more water and take more time to exercise.
    You learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear. So you take more time to rest. And just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul. So you take more time to laugh and play.
    You learn that for the most part, in life you get what you believe you deserve ... and that much of life is really a self-fulfilling prophecy.
    You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working and want something to happen is different from working for its realization.
    More importantly, you learn that to succeed you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You also learn that nobody can do it alone and it's OK to risk asking for help.
    You learn to fight for your life and not wasting live under a cloud of impending doom. You learn that life is not always fair, you do not always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting good people.
    On these occasions you learn not to personalize things. You will learn that God is not punishing you or failing to answer your prayers. It is life fair. And you learn to deal with evil in its most primitive to me.
    You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they choke the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to recognize when you are wrong and to build bridges rather than walls.
    You learn to be thankful and take comfort in the most simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people on earth can only dream of, a large refrigerator, running water, a warm bed and Sweet, a long hot shower.
    Gradually, you begin to take responsibility for you for yourself and make you a promise never to betray you and never settle for less than the desire of your heart.
    And you hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind.
    And you make a point to keep smiling, to keep trust and remain open to all possibilities wonderful. Finally, with courage in your heart and with God by your side you take a position, you take a deep breath and begin designing the life you want to live as best you can.

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Lucky Secret Life

1) Attitudes toward chance People are really lucky to be more open to opportunities. They are more sensitive to the existence of opportunities, good at creating opportunities, and act when opportunity comes. Apparently people who are fortunate to have a more relaxed and open to new experiences. They are more open to interaction with new people who know each other, and create new social networks. In contrast, groups of people who have the misfortune of having feelings and attitudes are more tense, so closed to new possibilities.
2) People who were luckier than the logic of relying on intuition. Important decisions by those lucky it was mostly done on the basis of "conscience" Whisper (intuition), rather than the brain of sophisticated things with numbers. The figures will be very useful, but generally the final decision of the "feel good". On a calm state of mind, and a clear mind, intuition will be more accessible. And more often used, our intuition will be even stronger.
3) Always expect good will .. The lucky it was always a positive attitude towards life. Prejudiced by optimistic that good will come to him. With such a mindset, are more resistant to a test that they can happen, and be more positive interactions with others.
4) Change a bad thing to be good Lucky people are very very smart, with a bad situation and turn it into good. For them, every situation there is always a positive side.
The secrets of the lucky person is fairly simple. He said, almost all normal people can also be lucky. Including you. 'S ready to get started on this happy? First, open your mind, and enjoy your life ... ...

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Life Lessons

If the world were 1000 reasons to cry ...
Show that you have reasons to smile in 1001.


If the world were 1000 reasons to complain about you ...
Show that you have 1001 reasons to be grateful.


If the world were 1000 reasons that you give up ...
1001 Show God's promise that you Berjaya because


If your work is not appreciated
So then you've come to the sincerity of learning.


If your efforts are not seen as important
So while you learn it is sincerity.




If your heart very deeply hurt,
So then you are learning about forgiveness.


If you have tired and disappointed
So then you're on the severity of learning.


If you feel lonely and alone,
So then you're learning toughness.


If you pay the actual cost you need not endure,
So then you're on the generosity of learning


This world is too contemptible make you cry
... Too cheap, that you're sad


... Too weak to despair

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Courage

Motivation for life - human superiority not only in his mind reasonable intelligence, not only in terms of intelligence, not just physical strength, but the main thing is the power of persistence in his heart. As presented by Calvin Coolidge, "Nothing in this world that can replace the perseverance and determination. That is the key to success." Thus, courage is needed in all aspects of human life, both in the life of holiness, as well as life and business career.
What is courage? Simple it is to have the ability to continue or "istiqamah" instructions or the confidence that comes from the deepest voice of conscience. In other words, can always be "inline" or circulated in orbit orbit-centered life of conscience, so powerful in fighting heart sounds. It's not easy giving up the challenges and difficulties it faces.
The size of virtue, patience may mean having faith in faith in Allah stability. His commitment to teaching, stable guide to the principles of life according to His holy books. Those with a strong determination to fight for the confidence vote on his conscience. Able to maintain and follow the convictions of conscience even faced with problems in different situations. Remain oriented to the belief of conscience in various fields of life he lived, not the exception in a career and business.
A wise proverb says "As long as valor, iron bars can also be applied to the needle." It is clear that the strength of so extraordinary courage and ability to overcome the various challenges and obstacles in life career, business and more. Given the power of persistence is the force that was born from within ourselves, so gave birth to such amazing power.
"Successful people are ordinary men noble, but with extraordinary courage. For the Strength of the heart, there is constant or istiqomah attitude, tenacity, patience and commitment to apply the values ​​of belief, conviction and courage to fight for the heart. "Top of Form

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Do Not Just Complain...

Justification ... A simple word that perhaps rarely use in everyday life, but often the direct practice, both consciously and unconsciously. We all do this at any time without notice. What has happened more often we complain, the more often we experience it.
Complaining is very easy to do and it becomes a habit for some people to complain and even worse with pride. If you have two friends, who always thinks positive first and the second is always complaining, of course you prefer to refer to a positive law?


Being someone who likes to complain might be able to get the sympathy of friends, but we do have more friends and do not solve problems, make us even our friends.
The question is, why we complain?
"We complain because we are disappointed that the reality is happening not in accordance with our expectations."


How can we overcome this? The trick is really difficult,
we just have to be thankful for.


Behind all the things we complain that there are things we can be thankful for.
As an illustration: you complain about your job, you know how much unemployment in Indonesia? Today nearly 60% of people of working age not working productive, so be thankful you still have jobs and income.
Or are you complaining about overtime because they were ordered or ordered to do extra work?
You know that your boss actually believe in your abilities? If you do not tell your boss could not give an extra or overtime.
Be thankful, because I was trusted by the boss!


More grateful and feel that your life will be easier and luck is always with you, because you can see what was possible to escape from your point of view, because you're too busy to complain.


Try it now!
1. Be thankful every day at least once a day. Be thankful for your work, your health, family, or anything else you may be grateful. Take time to 10-30 seconds just to give thanks and then resume your activities.


2. Do not complain if you have problems, but the sequel! Close your eyes for a moment, take a deep breath, hold it for a bit 'and then slowly exhale from the mouth, eyes open, smile and think that one day you will be grateful for everything that happens at this time.


3. Familiarize yourself for not having adhered to complain when you're with friends who complain and give positive feedback or none at all. Always think positive and look at the changes in your life.
"The most grateful to God for what you have, the more things that You will be grateful."

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Wise Words ..

If you guide the offense, then you will be under the control of those who are offensive.

 If you are easily angered, then your actions will be dictated by those who anger.
      If you are obsessed with what others think, then you will be imprisoned by their thoughts.
   If you yearn for easy answers and quick fixes, we fall prey to people who offer nothing but promises.
      If you find the truth too hard to bear, you are slaves to those who tell you what you want to hear.
      When you have the courage to think for themselves, the strength to accept what is, commitment and discipline to make a difference,
then you're free.
      You are truly free to live with purpose, joy and contentment.
      Let your life be defined, not by reactions to what others do, say or think, but your unique vision.
      Raise your eyes above the pettiness and follow the path of greatness in you.

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