Why Shout?

One day the teacher asked her students; "Why when someone is in a state of anger, he will speak with strong voice or shout?"
The seeker after thinking for a long time raised his hand and answered; "Since that time he had lost patience, so he then shouted." "But ..." the teacher replied, "his interlocutor would be beside it. Why should yell? Is he unable to speak gently? "
Almost all the students give a thought to correct a number of reasons according to their discretion. However, none a satisfactory answer. The teacher then said: "When two people are in situations of anger, the distance between the two hearts they become very much even though they are physically so close. Therefore, to achieve such a distance, they have to shout.
But strangely, the harder they shout, the more they become angry and self-heart distance that is between them becomes even further. Therefore they had to yell even louder. "
The teacher still continues: "Conversely, what happens when two people love each other? They not only do not scream, but when they speak the voice coming out of their mouths is so delicate and small. Smooth as anything, they could hear so clearly. Why is that? "The teacher asked as he noticed his pupils.
They seem to think very deep but none of them dared to give an answer. "Because their hearts are so close, their hearts were not located. In the end no need to say a word. An eye view very simply make them understand what they want to. "
The teacher is still continuing, "When you're hit by anger, not your heart to create distance. Moreover you should not utter words that bring in the distance between you. Maybe in time like that, do not utter the words may be a sensible way. Because time will help you. "

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