Praising and Praised

Among the many common phenomenon that we encounter in everyday life, is a phenomenon praise. Broadly speaking, a compliment can be classified in three forms: the spoken to lick praise, praise that are just mere lip service, as well as compliment the spoken sebagaiekspresi admiration.
When addressed in a healthy and proportional, praise can be a positive thing that can motivate us to continue to improve ourselves. However, in reality, praise it more often makes us forget the mainland, out of control, and so on. The more often people praise us, the greater the potential for us to be complacent, a big head and lost control of themselves.
To be able to respond in a healthy compliment, a da three tips are very interesting for us look up. First, always introspective in order not to be swayed by the praise they say. Compliments are the words of others who are potentially misleading us. Proverbial, others are peeling jackfruit, but we who get the sap. Others who threw a greeting, but instead we are plunged into a large head and out of control.
Second, realize the nature of praise as the mask of the dark side of us that are unknown to others. Because, in fact, every human being must have a dark side. And when there is someone who praises us, then it is more because of the ignorance he will be striped and our dark side.
And troubleshooting the third, even if both sides are saying others about us is true, we are taught to ask the Tuha to be better than what appears in the eyes of others.
Then how to package a good compliment?. In essence, not to praise that sometimes spontaneously out of our lips, even misleading and destructive personality of a friend who we praise.
Some tips are a simple as follows: First, do not praise in the presence of the person directly, but in front of other people with the aim of motivating them.
Second, praise Lontarkanlah Dalan form of prayer. Example: "Oh my God, make him the pious and expert knowledge."
Others praise leveled against us, is one of the great challenges that could damage our personality. Compliments to kill the character of a person, without his knowing it.
But when the praise has become a common phenomenon in the midst of our society, it is most important is how to respond to every compliment in a healthy manner so as not to forget the mainland and out of control; pengapresiasi every praise is only a mask of the dark side of us that are not known to others; and continue to pray to God to be better than what appears in the eyes of people.
Also, equally important, if necessary praising someone is how can pack a healthy compliment. After all, praise is not necessarily with words, but would be more meaningful when expressed through the support and prayers.

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