Sunday, March 27, 2011

Onions Life

By the break of a training course, the teacher asked the participants to make a game. "Who is the most important person in your life?" Teachers also asked for help from a participant advanced to the front of the class, and started doing the game.
"Please write the 20 names closest to your life today"
Participants wrote down the woman had 20 names on the board. There was a neighbor, friends work together, relatives, loved ones and others. Then the teacher was invited to choose, by crossing out one name that is not considered important. Then the girl was crossing out one name, and neighbors.
Furthermore, teachers were invited again siswinya crossing out one name left over, and schoolgirl it did, now he crossed out the name of friend sekantornya. And so on.
Until finally on the board only remaining 3 names. The name of her parents, husband's name and the name of his son. In the classroom suddenly felt so lonely. All participants of training his eyes to the teacher. Guessing what the next will be said by the teacher's. Or, finish is no more that must be selected.
However dikeheningan class the teacher said: "Strike one!"
With a slow and somewhat hesitant student took a marker and cross out one name. The name of his parents.
"Please cross one more!"
It appears that female students late in the game. He was restless. He raised it high spidolnya and cross out the name of the top he wrote earlier. The name of his son. Immediately sobs broke out in class.
After a few quiet atmosphere, the teacher was then asked:
"The dear you are not a parent and your child? Parents who give birth and raise you. You who bear children. Being a husband can be found again. Why did you choose the figure of the husband as the most important and difficult to separate? "
All eyes on girls who were still in front of the class. Waiting for what to say. "Time will pass, parents will leave me. Children too. If he had grown up and married, she would leave me too. What really could accompany me in this life is my husband. "
Life is like an onion. When the peeled layer by layer, will be exhausted. And sometimes we are made to cry.
For the friend who already has a spouse (husband / wife), without reducing the sense of compassion on the people closest to the other - hopefully our spouse continues to be a true partner, which only death can separate.

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